Forgiveness..

I am not here to vouch for 'forgiveness',to elaborate on its greatness,etc..I am here to put forth just a practical idea about forgiveness..
I have always read about forgiveness,mercy,kindness and the greatness of these virtues..great stories and great people..
But what if i am just common and not great enough to forgive..Its easier to read but very difficult to apply..How can you forgive someonee who has hurt you so much,how can you offer mercy to someone who has ripped your heart apart???
So am i here to discourage you from forgiving??being kind???
NO!! I AM HERE TO TELL YOU PLEASE DO IT!!
Not because Forgiveness is great;But because if you want to be really happy and contented and move on ahead in life then please Forgive! Its the surest thing that will forge you ahead in life in a good way ,though earlier it may cause you unrest..but rest aasured that in the end it will help you be in peace and harmony with yourself.
Don't do it for other's sake..Do it for yourself and you will realize that the process is just like a 'vaccination programme'!!
Where in the beginning you take a shot,feel the pain,sometimes develop a fever and so you are earlier left feeling no good or willing about it..and often having a doubt if its really going to help you or not..and then in the end when you are protected from the disease you are feeling positive and glad.
Anger,Revenge,Ego,Unhealthy competition,etc are all your dangerous diseases and 'Forgiveness' a sure-shot 'Vaccination programme'!!